wickedbed

Yes, it is true, I have SEX ON THE BRAIN!  Why, why do you ask?  Well, my hubby has been gone ALLLLLL week.  He was supposed to return yesterday afternoon, but he got stuck at the friggin’ airport and didn’t make it home until 12:00 am!  Now, I am willing to sacrifice many things for sex, but last night I was too damn tired to even sacrifice sleep for it!  Plus, he was in a piss-poor mood, and I wasn’t gonna get the quality fucking that I want.

What do I mean by quality fucking?  Well, I have had a hankerin’ for that ‘take me now’ experience.  I almost had it before my hubby left for his trip, when he threw my up against the bed and took me doggy style.  It was heavenly being taken in that manner.  However, what I am looking for is a more complete package.  I want the ‘you are GONNA do what I TELL you to do’ experience.  I want the ‘YOU are my SEX PUPPET’ experience.  I want the NEED to be animalistic and for me to be the subject of his desire.  Does that make sense?

I realize that some people would kill just to have sex on a regular basis, and it is probably not fair for me to be complaining (not really complaining) but desiring a different type of sex.  Couples have distinct ways they have sex.  Don’t know what I mean, let me demonstrate:

(Couple A - safe sex) - These couples are safety addicts.  Condoms, dental dams, good hygiene all the way.  Never anal, no deep kissing - just the parts mingling.  Safe sex.

(Couple B - shy sex) - The shy sex couples are the ones who want to have sex, but are embarrassed.  They always have the lights off, never come above the sheets (sort of Amish-like), never actually SEE the other person.  They have a few quick movements and it is over.

(Couple C - on the sly sex) - Couples who have sex on the sly are the ones who start out doing something else, then end up having sex.  Massages for example.  They both WANT sex, but neither will initiate, so one person ends up suggesting a massage.  It never varies, and it always leads to sex.

(Couple D - anniversary sex) - These couples save sex for the special occassions.  Anniversaries, birthdays and New Year’s eve.  There is usually alcohol involved and it is a ‘treat’ to be jumping in the sack.

(Couple E - vanilla sex) - The Vanilla category has many variables.  What is basically means is this couple does the same thing, over and over. Oral for him followed by oral for her followed by a little touching, then sex.  Vanilla, no toppings.

(Couple F - sprinkle sex) - Sprinkle sex is basically vanilla sex with sprinkles.  This means, the sex is pretty much the same, but occassionally there is a sprinkling of anal sex or a different position. 

(Couple G - buffet sex) - Couples in the buffet line are at least trying different things. They are experimenting with positions, porn, toys and trying to do something they haven’t done before. 

So, when I say that I want a different kind of sex, I just mean that I am looking for a variation on our particular theme.  We have pretty good sex - and as I said, I shouldn’t complain.  However, when it has been a long time since we have had sex (due to out of town trips or my monthly cycle) then I want and crave that animalistic, you must do me now sex!  I wonder, is it unfair of me to place my own subconscious (or very conscious) predeterminations on what we will do in bed?  Is it fair that if I don’t get the kind of sex I want, I will be pouty and upset?  I am not sure.  I do know this, it is unfortunate that the kind of sex to which I refer can not be accomplished by MY actions, only his.  I can’t TELL him this is what I want, he has to just KNOW it and do it.   Ugghh, what a position to be in?  Well, we will see what happens tonight.  One thing is for sure, it WILL be SEX!