wickedbed

 Happy Tuesday blogging world!  Time for another refection - which I am sorry to bore you with - but I have to reason this out.  Anyway, I was on the discussion forum of the site I do sex toy reviews for and there was this newbie who introduced himself by posting a picture of his cock.  It was a nice cock.  Long, hard, uncircumcised - very nice cock.  Anyway, one of the persons on forum replied to his post by saying, “Always lead with your Brain, not your Penis.”  Which I found clever and interesting.  However, it got me thinking (see the smoke rising from my ears?) - about what I lead with?

I mean, I have yet to post naked pictures of my breasts or any other part on the fourm or on my blog (although, I am considering doing that soon, for those whom have asked for it), and I know that I have a brain, and I use it.  However, this is my concern:  if I talk about sex 98% of the time - sexual issues, sex toys, having sex - does this mean that to those who do not ‘know me’ I am just a talking vagina?

I know, this is probably a gross overstatement, but I am really concerned about that impression.  Don’t misunderstand, I love sex, I love learning about sex, I love expressing my sexuality.  I also love to help people by discussing sexual issues.  In that regard, I am not at all embarrassed or ashamed that I talk about sex A LOT.  However, do I come off like an oversexed one trick pony (or pussy)?  Do people assume that all I know and all I can talk about is sex, fucking, toys, orgasms, anal sex, bondage or BDSM?  I sure hope not, cause there is more to me (even if those other things are not particularly interesting when put against the sexual spectrum) than just these things.

Or, looked at another way, if my identity IS tied into my sexualness - my ability to and preference for being sexual - should that be a problem?  DO I really CARE if people think I am just about sex?  If I truly do help people (which I think I do) and I truly do give good advice, help my friends, know what I am talking about, then does it matter if this is my ‘thing.’ Does it really matter if people think Mikayla = sex.  I mean, there are worst things to be linked up with, right?  If it was Mikayla=bitch or Mikayla=stupid, then that would be Baaddd, right?

Ugghhh, I guess I am just gonna have to accept my lot in life - and know that I am a sexual person who likes to talk sex.  If that means that I am a talking Vagina, well, I guess there are worse things to be.