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Cumming Home…..

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , , , on May 12, 2008 by mikayla1

handcuffed heart

Let me begin by saying, “I LOVE my husband.”  I do, I truly do.  However……[you knew there was a however coming] we are on separate plains sometimes when it comes to sex.  I am not suggesting that he is a bad lover or that he can not satisfy me, cause he can.  In fact, he is the best oral lover I have ever had - THE BEST.  He is also very caring, tender and tried really, really hard to satisfy any needs, wants or desires that I have.

However……sometimes I get the itch.  You know what I mean, the ITCH. The “tie me up - fuck me till I am raw - make me suck your cock - slap me around a little - spank me harder” itch.  Lately, I have been reminiscing about my past relationships, particularly one with Bondage Guy.  This has caused a yearning in me, a desire to be taken, possessed, admired for my sexuality and subserviance……I have missed being taken as a sex puppet, a submissive to a demanding master….

Now, this is not the first time that this subject has come up in our marriage, it has come up plenty of times.  In the years that we have been married he has come a long, long way to doing more of what I request.  However [boy there are a lot of howevers] he is still hesitant and ‘afraid’ of doing what I most desire, to be had……

So, last night we were having sex.  He was down between my legs slapping my pussy and I said, ‘harder’ - and he did it a little harder.  Then he began to finger me and I said, ‘more fingers please’ and he said, ‘but I have 3 in now’ and I said, ‘4 fingers please’ and he stopped, thought about it, finally put in the 4 and I began to orgasm over and over.  Then he spanked me playfully and I said, ‘harder please’ and he did, but not too hard.  I wanted - no, I craved HARDER - but he only would allow himself so far.  Then we fucked, and I wanted him to shove toys into my pussy, to stretch me out, to bind me and take me…but he didn’t, we fucked and it was good…but it could have been GREAT.

I am not used to asking for such things. I am not used to begging to be taken in this way.  I was, confused, and angry, and upset….and felt….worthless.  This is ironic, of course, as my husband loves me very much and would never hurt me or intentionally upset me.  That is why I had to talk to him about it. 

We discussed it, and I tried to explain once again what I like in bed, no, more of what I am accustomed to.  I realize that we have been married for almost 12 years, and he is trying, it is just sometimes I want him to change completely - be what I am used to…..does that even make sense?

So I explain to him what it is I miss, want, desire.  How I like to be treated in bed, how this has nothing to do with how he feels about me as a person or a wife.  How I want him to use me like a sex toy - cause I am his sex toy.  How being bound and helpless is like coming home to me…..and he looked at me like I was a little nuts, but said he would try but it would be hard for him to do some of these things.

You and I both know, that won’t work.  If a person is innately opposed to such practices, how can you change them?  How do I train him to punish me if it is not in his mindset to do so?  Can people LEARN to loveingly ‘abuse’ their mates? Am I destined to spend the rest of my marriage feeling like something is missing???? Is this a problem with ME or with HIM or not a problem at all?  If I need this so bad, is it right for me to ask for it?  Is it fair to make him feel less than because he is this way?  I am confused….but I just know that I want to have that feeling again…..even if just for one night….

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Male Multiples

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , on May 6, 2008 by mikayla1

Do you think that men can have multiple orgasms?  Let me tell you, they CAN!  Oh sure, Tantric Sex teaches all about the ‘dry orgasm’ and how to have multiples, but have you ever had your man just come twice in a few minutes?  It is AWESOME!!! 

Why I bring this up is, Sunday night my hb and I were having some hot sex.  The typical stuff really, oral for him, some oral and 5 finger banging for me, followed by a very hard and fast fuck.  Then, as he remained inside me just coming down into his refractory period, I began to clench down onto his cock.  I do this all the time - when he is inside me, after I orgasm, before I orgasm and after he has orgasmed [THANK YOU KEGELS] Anyway, there he was, lying on me and I was clenching away on his cock and slowly and slightly grinding my hips up against him.  He began to pant, then moan, then I felt him get really hard inside me [LOVE having him grow inside me, it is AWESOME]  and he started thrusting again, and grinding on me again and then I started fingering my pussy wildly and came AGAIN and shortly so did he! 

We have had multiples in the sense that he has gotten hard again and came in 20 minutes or so, but never this close together in this manner.  He even CAME again - it was sooooo lovely being filled to the rim with him!  As I walked to the bathroom and felt his cum dripping down my legs I had the biggest grin on my face!  I must say, giving my man multiples really made my night!

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Parties, Friends and Fucking

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , on May 4, 2008 by mikayla1

So I know it is hard to believe but I actually have a ‘real’ life - separate from my job as a Sex Goddess.  I have a job (actually, a few jobs), I have children, and I have lots of friends.  Having friends is great, except that friends have kids too and lots of friends with lots of kids means LOTS OF BIRTHDAY PARTIES!  Now, while I personally love the kid’s theme parties - 3 in one weekend is a bit too much to handle! 

My children and me and my husband were invited to a bowling party on Friday night.  It was fun, the kids had a blast, but we were gone from 4:00 pm until almost 10:00 pm.  No sex on Friday :(  mainly because on SATURDAY we had 2 MORE parties to go to.  We had a ‘Pretty Princess’ party at 10:00 am until 2:00 pm and another party from 4:00 pm until 9:00 pm.  Too many parties for one weekend.

The only good thing about having all these parties was being able to see all my friends.  In between the cupcakes, pinatas and answering my son’s repeated questions of ‘why am I at a princess party, I am a boy?’ and ‘boys don’t wear tiaras’ (I was so proud!!) - we get to sneak in a little sexy talk.  My friends are almost constantly asking me about sex, what I do in the bedroom, how many times I have it, and of course, what the new toy is that I love.  Yesterday was no exception as I detailed my new hot finds, told them what my latest articles are and depicted my latest sexcapades with my hubby.  It is all very racy talk for a 3 year olds party!

Most of my friends freely admit that their sex lives are, well, that they suck.  The other few that talk about their sex lives are clearly exaggerating (and I know this because THEIR HUBBIES complain to MY HUBBY!) and there are a few that have good, solid sex lives.  I do not know how I got so lucky to have a great sex life.  This is not to say it is always perfect, but on average, we do have more sex than our group of friends - and that is a good feeling!

So anyway, after the late party last night I was feeling tired and really worn down.  2 nights without sex (especially on the weekend) would have been a travesty of epic proportions - but I was soooo tired.  I really just wanted to crawl up into a ball and go to sleep.  My hubby, of course, had other ideas.  We sit on the couch and he gave my feet a much needed footrub.  Ahhhhh, that felt so good.  Then his hands went up my legs to my calves, thighs, in between.  It takes very little to get me going, and that was about it.  His hand gently rubbing me through my panties.  Mmmmm, that feels soooooo good.  Moving to the bedroom I realize that I am awake and perky now…..good for him….I need a good, relaxing FUCK!

Have you ever noticed that when you are most tired, sex can perk you right back up?  Seriously, the next time you are dead tired and your partner wants to have sex - let them start the foreplay - you will be awake and ready in no time.

So where was I?  Oh yeah, bedroom.  He pulls off my pants and panties in one fluid motion and goes between my legs (hey, we are tired, there is no pussy footing around here - PUN INTENDED).  I spread them wide and let him taste me.  I love this position - me on the bed, him standing on the edge of it - he can spread my legs and delve down deep.  My orgasms come quickly and in rapid succession.  I am panting and begging for him to put his cock in my mouth….he doesn’t.  Instead he pulls me to the end of the bed, puts my legs back by my head and enters me quickly and with fury.

“Sometimes I just need to FUCK YOU,” he growled at me.  (literally, a lust-filled growl escaped his mouth!) As he pounded away quickly and furiously.  I lifted my shirt up (cause he loves to watch the tits bounce) and began to tweak my nipples.  I felt the fire between my legs burning, cause in this position he rubs my g-spot just right.  I began to finger my clit wildly (I wished I could reach my bullet - DAMN!) but I felt the build up coming.  He told me to move my hand, confused I did as I was told, then he slapped my spread pussy and the squirting began in an instant! 

Still pounding away my hubby growls again, “you are SO fucking tight, squeeze my cock….” and I continue to cum and squeeze him tightly until I feel him bury himself DEEP inside me and cum!  For those ladies who claim that they can’t “feel” their partner cum inside them, I beg to differ, I definitely CAN.  He collapses on me in a heap satisfied and a bit sweaty! “Now THAT was what we both NEEDED,” he says as he kisses me.

So ladies and gents, remember, even if you are totally exhuasted, you can always fit in a fast fuck to get the adrenaline pumping and the tension out! 

So ended my Saturday night and off to bed we went, as today (SUNDAY) we have yet ANOTHER party in the afternoon - followed, I am sure, by a night of fast fucking led by ME.  I so love my weekends of parties, friends and fucking - don’t you?

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Be A Fuck Puppet

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , on May 1, 2008 by mikayla1

So, last night I was talking to a good girlfriend of mine.  We were just having ‘girl chat’ and she mentioned that her new boyfriend mentioned that he wanted to spice up their sex life.  She was married for 6 years to a terrible loser of a man - and now has this really nice guy.  However, she confessed, that their sex life is very ‘vanilla’ and not at all as hot as they both hoped it would be.

So, she asked me what she could do to spice things up?  I told her, ‘be his fuck puppet!’

“Huh?  His what?,” she replied, looking very puzzled.

His ‘fuck puppet.’ - meaning, you are there to pleasure him, do what he asks, be his total inspiration for lust.  In other words, make all his sexual fantasies come true.

My friend found this to be a bit extreme and demeaning.  She questioned the purpose of doing EVERYTHING her guy wanted?  Didn’t that make her seem weak and subserviant?  Didn’t it mean he had all the control and she had none?  Didn’t it go against any level of feminism that she had aquired after her bad marriage?

HELL NO!  I think my friend (and many women) confuse being a giving, supportive and thorough lover to being a sex ’slave’ - and there is definitely a differentiation.  Sure, there are those gals who are literal sex slaves to their men, doing only for them and getting nothing in return.  A sure sign of this is a man who doesn’t respect his partner - and only cares about busting his own nut. 

What I am referring to is a mutual understanding that you are each other’s play things - sexual playthings.  It is important for both partners to understand that being the other’s plaything is not a sign of ‘ownership’ - unless you take the idea of Dominant and submissive to the extreme - which is another topic alltogether.  No, being a fuck puppet is allowing him to pull your sexual strings, and in return you are really pulling his!

The common misconception about sexual power is that the Dominant person is the one in control - this is SO untrue.  While he may be in control of his ACTIONS - all his actions are driven by the submissive one.  In a relationship more evenly balanced (thusly, less formally defined as DOM / sub) both partners have almost equal power.  However, the person who allows their strings to be pulled has more…..this is just the dichotomy of this type of relationship.

So, how does one become a fuck puppet?  Well, the first step is communication - mutual communication.  Have a discussion about what your ultimate fantasies are.  What does he REALLY want in bed?  You may be doing a bunch of great stuff, but if he wants more oral, mutual masturbation or a threesome -then you need to try and accomodate that.  Does that mean you have to go and have a ‘real’ threesome?  No, but you could find ways to role play or fantasy play that scenario into your sex life.

Also, it is no suprise that sex gets stale when both partners stop working at making things new and fresh.  If your sex life plays like “Groundhog Day” (the same thing over and over and over) then you need a sexual intervention!  Spontaneity is the root of all things good in sex.  It is important that we remember that new places, lingerie or positions can run a marathon in a sexual situation.  Changing just one thing can make it all new again.  Evaluate your sex life and figure out what could be changed or enhanced. 

Third, try new things. Don’t be afraid to wear that sexy corset or dress like a sexy nurse. Truly, step out of your comfor zone.  This applies to men too - if you have never tried anal penetration - TRY IT.  Get over wondering what ‘people will think’ - no one cares about that - you and your partner are havng fun, that is all that is important.

Next, remember to ask and tell.  Ask what feels good, what he wants more of, what you can do better.  TELL what you like, how he can pleasure  you and what you would like more of.  This is a give/take type situation - if you are only giving - then take some, if you are only taking, give some back.

Finally, love what you are doing.  Don’t give the blowjob if you are going to gag and cry about it.  Do it with passion and lust in your heart.  Believe me, a partner knows if you are not into doing something to or for them.  Don’t be prudish - be adventurous.  Be sensitive and teach your partner how to do things - and in turn, they can teach you.  Learn more everyday about sex - read books, articles - get sex toys!  Really do your homework and everytime you jump in the sack fireworks will happen and you will have MORE and MORE sex!

That, in a nutshell, is how to be a fuck puppet.

 

 

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Mar-OOOooooooo-thon Sex (FINALE)

Posted in Kinky Stuff with tags , , , , , , , , , on April 30, 2008 by mikayla1

OK, so for those of you just joining me, this is part V of my reliving of my longest sexual experience in my life.  My ex lover “Bondage Guy” literally had sex in various forms - along with bondage and pleasure-torture - for an entire weekend.  I have left of at 4:30 am Sunday morning, after having started at approximately 8:00 pm Friday night.  I am exhausted and wondering what is going on.  I have just given BG another opportunity to cum - and things are getting strange for me.

So, after this last episode of making BG cum with just my actions (and a little tongue action) I am wondering if we are done.  I am exhausted and sleep deprived.  BG gets off the bed and reaches for the ropes.  I can NOT believe that I am not finished yet.  He is seriously wired and I am exhausted - but there is no room in a sub’s life for dissention.  BG instructs me to go to the bathroom, clean up, get a glass of water (before water bottles were big) and come back to the bedroom.  I did as I was told, literally drinking 3 glasses of water before I came back to the bedroom.  He asked me to lay on the bed, and then put my hands together.  He tied my hands together, then tied my feet to my hands (in a lay-down position) and then crawled next to me and told me to sleep - that we had more work to do.

I lay there, thinking, confused, excited, scared - and finally fell asleep about 5:45 am Sunday morning.  I fell into a deep, exhaustive sleep.  When I awoke I smelled bacon, eggs, and other sweet smells.  I looked at the clock, 11:15 am Sunday morning.  I waited patiently, the water I had drank wanted to exit and I was very, very hungry.  I had not eaten in almost a day (besides some nibbles he allowed me the night before).  BG finally came into the bedroom, kissed me and untied me.  Telling me to go wash up, brush my teeth and come to the table naked.

I did as I was told - but really wanted a shower.  I came to the table and BG had a wonderful breakfast of turkey bacon, scrambled eggs with cheese, orange juice and toast.  I was so totally hungry I waited for him to say I could eat, but inside I was salivating.  He gave his permission and I ate until I was so full I wanted to bust!  He talked to me a little, about the previous evening, and how pleased he is with my performance thus far.  He told me I was a great sub and fuck puppet.

After breakfast we went into the living room to watch some television.  I was allowed to sit on the couch, but still naked.  We sat there for a while and I had to use the restroom.  He gave me permission to do so, then when I came back to the living room he was naked and hard on the couch.  He had put in one of his favorite porns (a John Holmes flick - does that date me at all??) and he was stroking himself gently.  I resumed my place on the couch and he told me to put one leg up on the couch and the other on the floor.  He pulled at my pussy lips while jacking himself off.  He occassionally dipped a finger in and brought it to my mouth to taste.  Mainly he was just playing with me, not enough to make me cum, but I was excited. 

In a few minutes he told me to go to the bedroom and straddle the desk.  I went in and did as I was told.  He took the paddle (his favorite one - it had little hairbrush needles on it) and became to spank my ass until I was nearly weeping from the pain.  He then shoved me on the bed and told me to hold my ankles.  I did so and he brought the hitachi magic wand and began systematically stimulating my clit with it - on and off - on and off - until I would almost cum - then he would stop.  He resumed this for what felt like hours and hours - I wanted to cum so badly that I couldn’t stand it.  My legs ached, I was dizzy, I was literally on the brink of crashing.

He kept telling me, ‘don’t you cum until I tell you, you are MINE, don’t do anything unless I tell you.’ This was one of the favorite things of his to do, he loved to make me beg for it.  I was crying I wanted to cum so badly.

SIDE NOTE:  If you have never experimented with orgasm delay, let me tell you, it is one of the most painful things you can do.  If your partner has endurance to last into the hour mark, bringing you to the brink and back again, it is the most intense pain/pleasure ever!

When he tired of this, he stopped with the massager and tied my legs spread eagle.  He slapped my pussy over and over with the paddle (the regular one) and I was so sore and just wanted to cum.  He eventually got onto the bed and situated himself between my legs.  I was soooo ready for him.  He got some lube (I wondered why, I was so wet).  He spread the lube all down me and on his cock.  Then, he lifted up my ass adn began to enter me anally.  He was not as gentle as I would have liked, and he entered me a bit too fast, causing a bit of pain.  He began pounding my ass over and over and I was so horny.  Finally, blissfully he stuck a few fingers in my pussy and flicked my clit with his finger.  He couldn’t hold me up doing this so he told me I could finger myself until I came.  It took seconds until i started having orgasm after orgasm after orgasm.  It was such a mad relief!  BG was pounding and moaning and finally pulled out and came all over my tits, pussy and ass.  I was spent - totally spent!

In a few minutes, he took my hand and led me to the bathroom.  He sat me on the toilet and ran me a bath.  I knew it was over for this time, as the post sexual attitude had changed to one of pampering.  He placed me in the tub, washed my hair, scrubbed my back, cleaned me all over.  Then he returned with my soft pajamas and helped me to get dressed.

Leading me back to the bedroom, he placed me into bed, covered me up and kissed my forehead.  He turned off the lights and let me sleep.  It was 5:00 pm Sunday afternoon, and I slept until 6:00 am the next morning!

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Here ends my chronical of my longest sexual experience ever.  I suck at math, but it was a long, long time.  I did some things I never would have thought I would ever do, and I was scared, excited, nervous and very horny.  This was an experience I will never forget - and it helped to make me sexually free - which I still am today - even without the heavy bondage.

So, anyone have any other requests?  I love remembering these experiences….

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Mar-OOOOoooooo-thon Sex (by request)

Posted in Kinky Stuff with tags , , , , , , , , , on April 22, 2008 by mikayla1

PART I:  YES, I TAKE REQUESTS

Happy Tuesday blogging world!  I am so sorry I have been MIA for a while, but it is final time, and I had papers to grade!  I am finished now for a few weeks and can devote more time to writing and fun!  Anyway, I had a request by Mike to describe a marathon night of sex.  Since this particular night, well weekend, was very intense, I am going to divide my retelling into 2 or 3 parts!  Today is Part I of my longest night of sex ever!  Hold on to your panties and boxers - it is going to be a wild ride!

~OK, so I have briefly discussed Bondage Guy, who was, among other things, my longest relationship, a very controlling and dominant man, and I willingly served as his sub until he took the DOM role a bit too far and did something that I could not forgive [more on that on a later post].  Anyway, it was with him that all my longest sex sessions were held.  They were very calculated, very precise and always FUN, but I will warn, this is not for the weak of heart - these were intense sexual situations, and I DO NOT recommend that anyone try some of these things at home!

So, this was about 5 years into our relationship.  We had become very involved in BDSM and were comfortable playing that way.  We had many long sessions, but this particular time BG said that he wanted to take me the entire weekend, over and over and over….OK, so I was up for it.  I assumed he meant ‘all weekend’ as in, some Friday, some Saturday, etc…..NO, he meant ALLLL WEEKEND!

So, we began on Friday.  He told me to come to his apartment with nothing but the clothes on my back.  I got there and he had ordered in Italian food - my favorite at the time.  We sat and had a nice, romantic dinner with wine, candles, and great food.

SIDE NOTE:  For those of you who are unfamiliar with BDSM and think, ‘hey, he was NICE to his sub’ - yes, DOMS typially LOVE their subs and treat them well.

So anyway, he gave me a nice dinner, we chatted and then he gave me a nice massge (full body) and helped me to shower and shave (he was the one who introduced me to pussy shaving).  He dried me off and brought me my ‘garb’ - a new leather back-lacing corset, matching thong, dog collar.  I got dressed with his help and put on make-up [I could never go without make-up] and put my hair back in a slick ponytail.

All ready to serve and to play, BG led me to the bedroom which was lit with literally a hundred candles.  I saw on the bed some black tethers - they were new, this would be our inagural use of them - and some of our basic toys:  sex wax, tethers, paddle, leash, ice cubes, handcuffs, rope, vibrators, anal plugs, dildos, wine bottles, clothespins - you know basic stuff.

BG led me to the bed and instructed me to sit down.  He stroked my face tenderly then ordered me to get on my knees and take him in my mouth.  The play had begun [8:00 pm Friday].  I did what I was told and undid his pants taking out his semi-erect cock.  I began to suck it slowly and licking it up and down.  When he got harder he told me to ‘put it all in his mouth’ - which I did.  He took my head and forced his cock into my throat [I never gag] and then out and in again.  This introductory session gave him his first cum of the evening - he liked to get number 1 over with fairly quickly.

Pulling me up by my leash he ordered me to spread my legs and bend over the bed.  Pushing my face into the bed he took my hands and handcuffed them behind me.  He kicked my legs apart slightly more and ordered me not to make a sound.  He took our leather and fur double sided paddle and began to slowly and intentionally hit my ass with it.  Harder and harder each thump got until I felt the heat of the welt growing on my ass.  Staying quiet was beginning to get harder to do - and he knew this - so he used the fur side to give my bottom a break.  pulling the thong up between my pussy lips and into my crack - the pleasure/pain principle was almost too much!

After a short break he changed tools and got our mini-tethers.  First he tickled my ass and between my legs with it - then SMACK - hard on the ass - I welped a bit - and this cost me another slap on the ass.  This went on for a good while until I had tears running down my face and wanted so badly to turn over!  The time finally came when he hoisted me up by my hands and turned me around to kiss him [my reward for being quiet] then he pushed me gently down onto the bed, my hands still behind my back.  BG ordered me to spread my legs [finally, some relief] and I did so.  The thong was wet and I was ready.  He took the tethers again and made them dance between my legs.  The thong a very unwanted obstruction to my wetness.  He took the handle and rubbed up back and forth between my slit - ohhhhh it was heavenly, I can almost feel it now - and then he SMACKED it down onto my clit - hard!  I came in a gush like no other [but remained silent].  He knew I had cum, and that pleased him.  He took the paddle again and started smacking my pussy a little harder each time until it was red around the edges of the tiny thong.  I was in massive pain and pleasure and with about every 5 smacks I came like a freak!

When I almost couldn’t bear this anymore, BG pulled me up and uncuffed my hands, ordering me back to the floor for another BJ.  This time he teased my mouth with his cock - in a little, out a little - ordering me to use my hands.  I did as I was told, doing the best that I could.  Using tongue, hands, mouth - deepthroat.  He stopped in a few minutes and put his boxers back on.

[I was very confused, we had played many times before, and this was not his normal agenda.  Usually this next BJ ended up with mutual oral then sex, then some play - this was different]

[10:15 pm FRIDAY]  As you can see from my timeline, BG took his time.  Each separate event was never rushed, but this was even longer than I was used to.  I was confused and aroused - and a bit scared.  We had a safe word [if I ever got uncomfortable I would say this word and he would stop]. 

So BG then pulled me up by the collar, put the leash on, and ordered me to follow him on my hands and knees.  Crawling like a dog, I followed him through the kitchen to get some beers, then to the living room.  He sat in the chair, I knelt on the floor.  He told me to ’stay’ and went to put in a movie - porn of course - and sat down.  He ordered me to rub his feet and suck his toes [this was BG's big thing - toe sucking] - so I began to do what I was told.  I literally sucked his toes for an hour and a half while he watched porn and drank beer.  When the movie ended, he allowed me to sit up, gave me a beer to drink and told me I could ‘relax’ on the floor - which I did. 

[So now I am thinking, it is past midnight, we are still in clothes, I haven't done half the things I normally do, what the heck is going on?]

After I drank my beer, BG told me to get up, stand in front of him and spread my legs (FINALLY!) so I did.  He pulls the thong UP between my slit hard and keeps holding it until I am forced up onto my toes.  He asks me, “you KNOW you love to serve me, you KNOW you love me to fuck you, you LOVE to suck my cock, and you are going to do it and like it all weekend, do you understand?” - I answer  yes, and he releases the thong, giving my pussy a quick slap with his palm.

[12:30 am SATURDAY]  BG orders me to follow him on hands and knees to the bathroom, he has me go to the bathroom while he watches [another one of his things]. He washes me with a wipe and leads me back to the bedroom.  He orders me to the bed and ties my hands and feet into the restraints.  He gets between my legs and rips the thong right off [NOW we are getting somewhere!]  He takes the clothespins that are nearby and begins to place them one by one on my pussy lips, until there were probably 4 on each side.  He then lifts up my clitoral hood and places one there - which HURT!

SIDE NOTE:  This is NOT for the weak of heart or those with low pain tolerance!  It is VERY painful (in a good way)

In a matter of minutes the pain turned to numbness and I was dying to have them removed.  BG guy got off the bed, left the room and I heard him in the living room watching another DVD.  This one sounded like a war movie.  Now I was really confused….here I was, strapped to the bed, half naked, with clothespins on my pussy and he was what, watching Bridge Over River Kawai? 

That is how BG left me.  There, pulsating in pleasure and pain, confused and alone - but OH so aroused!

[2:00 am Saturday]  Here is where I end for the day.  Orgasm count [as requested] is about 20 or so.

Part II tomorrow or later today…..

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Welcome Home Sex….

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , , , , , , on April 19, 2008 by mikayla1

Have you ever had “welcome home sex?”  You know what I mean, your lover is gone for any length of time, he or she comes home and you fuck like horny little rabbits?  A ‘Welcome Home Fuck’ as it were!  Yep, that is exactly what I did last night….welcomed my man home in style!

Ladies (or gentlemen) if you have a partner who travels on business, is in the military, or you do not live together for any reason whatsoever, it is important - NO, IMPERATIVE - that you always welcome them home with words AND deeds - and by deeds I mean sex!

There are some rules to the ‘welcome home fuck’ - and they are important rules.  Here they are (for those of you interested - the rest of you, well too bad, read em’ anyway!):

Rule #1:  NO QUICKIES!  Welcome home sex is NEVER short and sweet, it is loooonnnngg and erotic. Now, if your man has been gone a loooooonnnnnng, long time - then it might be a quickie for obvious reasons - but then you can just do it again!

Rule#2:  FOREPLAY IS A MUST!  Yep, this is not intercourse only, you have to have the full sexual buffet from the salad to the dessert!  No skimping on this sexual meal!

Rule #3:  EXTRA SPECIAL SOMETHINGS FOR HIM OR HER!  Yep, that is right, when your lover comes back from afar you need to give them extra special attention.  That means, great mind-blowing blowjobs for HIM or long, loving, clitoral licks for HER.  Make it special and take your time to pleasure!

Rule #4:  WEAR SOMETHING SPECIAL! Yeah, I know, ‘it doesn’t stay on that long, why wear it?’  I call BS!  Nothing turns a man on more than seeing his lover with some silky sheer something!  Men, you can buy silky boxers - trust me, your gal will love it.

Rule #5:  NO RULES!  Don’t plan out your sex too much, just go with it and let the heat of the moment overtake you.  Kiss them hard, fondle, touch, caress.  Devour them in sexual foreplay.  Build-it up and build-it up more.  Foreplay until you have no spit left, then fuck them hard like you have been waiting your whole life to do it.

Rule #6:  BE FREAKY! No man or woman wants to come home to ‘plain Jane’ - they want JANE, THE AMAZON TEMPTRESS!  Get your freak on with some anal sex, use some toys, bring ice to the bedroom - change it up and give him or her a super freaky thrill!

So, that about summarizes ‘welcome home sex’ rules.  Let me share how I welcomed my hard-working hubby home.  I made him a nice, home-cooked dinner (men love good food ladies, learn how to cook!) - and after the boys were in bed I slipped into something sexy (black corset, panties) and put on music, lit candles, got a bunch of toys out and a big, glass of ice!

Then I led him by hand to the bedroom.  He protested at first (bathroom break) but I had other plans.  I took down his pants and shirt, took down his boxers and wiped him down lovingly with a washcloth and warm water.  All clean and time to get dirty.  Long kisses, hard pinches, caresses and tugs - led to a long, long blowjob where I skillfully (yes, I have skilllzzz) brought him to the brink and back until finally letting him cum in my mouth.

Then, we moved on to foreplay where he got to watch (and help) me play with some of my favorite toys.  Getting hard again was no problem, but he moved on to oral sex for me and then a seductive 69.  I pulled ice from the jar for this killer BJ, sending shivers up his spine and through his cock.  When he was getting close I put him on his back and got out his favorite prostate massager (yes, my HETERO man loves anal play - deal with it!)  This is where it got good.  Once in and he was starting to feel the sensations of HIS orgasm cumming, I got on top of him with the massager still in and rode him until he screamed my name in pleasure and intensity!

Now THAT is the way to welcome your man home ladies!  Never forget the importance of the ‘welcome home fuck!’

 

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A NEW Man in MY WICKED BED….

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , , , , on April 17, 2008 by mikayla1

SHHhhhhhhsssssshhhhh, don’t tell my hubby, but I had a new man in my bed last night…and it was FANTASTIC!  He had thick, black hair that fell a little in front of his piercing GREEN eyes, a tiny bit of 6:00 shadow (which is a little more defined than a 5:00 shadow) graced his strong-boned face and a tiny goatee framed his gorgeous, straight, WHITE teeth.  His body was toned but not ’superman muscular’ as well as nicely tanned.  His hands were soft, but strong and LARGE - when he held me….oh baby, I felt like I could float.  His butt is one of those ‘looks good in jeans, looks FUCKING HOT out of them (and in his sweet boxers that showed just a bit of the buldge of his cock) - and the cock….oh BABY that cock was long - at least 9 inches, thick and hairfree!  PERFECT MANHOOD!

Knowing my hubby was out of town we agreed to meet up at my house after the boys were in bed.  I waited naked in my bed, anxiously awaiting his arrival.  He silently let himself in, sliding naked into my bed.  Ohhhh, I had waited all day for him to arrive.  His hot breath on my neck, his soft kisses leading to soft caresses over my breasts and nipples.  Feeling his touch is almost too much.  He parts my legs and leads his skillful and fast fluttering fingers directly to my wet slit and pays attention too all my sacred spaces - especially my hot clit!

He moves his fingers in and out of me….driving me absolutely wild!  Using his manly hands to stimulate my hot button.  Moving on top of me, he places that hard, thick, GOD’S GIFT TO WOMAN inside my wet, waiting pussy - sending me almost immediately into orgasm…but I hold off, savoring his touch, his magical touch!  He knows I want to cum and takes advantage of my hot state by putting his fingers on hyper-overdrive - fingering my clit so quickly that I had no choice but to explode into orgasm - terrible, pleasurable, intense, immense - ORGASM!  His touch was so wonderful, so complete, so full-filling it was almost ELECTRIC - or at least, BATTERY POWERED!!!!

Don’t panic, I didn’t cheat on my hubby, but I did have ONE HELL Of a fantasy!  Whoo wee it was HAWT!  What better thing to do when you find yourself alone in your bed than to have a hot fantasy with your favorite fantasy lover?  I used my favorite dual action and got down and dirty with the guy I saw working at Old Navy the other night.  He sold me a hot bill of goods, I tell you! 

Fantasies are a healthy, natural part of any sex life - solo or within your partnership.  I often fantasize about my hubby, the guy at Old Navy and even famous people, such as Angelina Jolie (pre-Brad and Baby fest) or Val Kilmer (only in THE SAINT) - and get my freak on with the assistance of my best fantasy pals!  Let’s face it, what is more fun, lying there using a toy and just cumming - ORRRR - framing your playtime within the context of some great fantasy!  I will tell you - FANTASY!  Last night there was a sexy new man in my bed….isn’t it time you brought one (or woman) into yours???

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Quickie Stop At Semen Station…

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , , , , , , on April 16, 2008 by mikayla1

When life takes you by storm, when do you fit in sex?  Truly, it seems like my life is on super, hyper overdrive and I just have to find time for EVERYTHING - including sex!  I have always prided myself on finding time to fuck - no matter what - but lately…..well, lately the realization of two kids, 3 jobs, a husband who travels, soccer, T-ball, working out, cooking, cleaning…..you get the picture - LIFE!

So my hubby is getting ready to leave on a short business trip and I HAD to make time to send him off in style.  We have had sex as usual the last few days, but last night I was just super busy.  I know, my own advice:  nothing is more important than making time for you lover - I still agree with that - but it is becomming harder for me to give HOURS to sex!  Let’s face it, 5:30 am comes early, ya know!

So, last night my hubby was packing, I was grading papers and answering questions on TooTImid when I looked over at him and thought, ‘here we are, together, doing things that can WAIT until tomorrow or later tonight, what am I doing???’ I asked him, ‘honey, how much longer until you are ready for bed (wink wink).  He replies, ‘I have a lot of reports to print, have to finish packing, have email to answer…..’ 

Hmmmm, well sex was not sounding like it was gonna happen.  However, I do not like sending my man off without something to remember me by!  So, I put a plan in my head, and I went to get ready.

First, I got all ‘cleaned and freshened’ - cause no man likes a stinky woman (hey, admit it girls, life makes you sweat, sweat makes you stink in places that SHOULD smell GOOD).  I put on a nice, sheer nightie, put my hair up, lit some candles, got out the lube (if needed) and lay on the bed.  I brought out my favorite dual action, fluffed up my pillows and began to play.

SIDE NOTE:  This is not uncommon for me or for us.  I often take time to play with my favorite toys, or review a new one, so if my hubby hears the not so silent “Bzzzzinnng” in the bedroom, he often doesn’t pay attention, unless he wants to play.

So, I racked up a few Os and then called to my lovee.  “Dear, wanna come in here a minute,” I called in my best, sexiest voice. 

He came to the bedroom post haste, looked at me, smiled and said, ‘oh dear, we can do it - how can I refuse - but I really have work to do!’

I reply, ‘I wasn’t looking for a marathon honey, just a quickie stop at Semen Station!”

With that my hubby came to the bed, I sat up, undid his shirt buttons, trouser buttons and released his already hard cock.  I began to lick and suck on his cock until he was nice and hard, then I motioned for him to come on the bed.  Taking his cock in my hand I stroked him slowly and softly, as he put his fingers to my pussy finger banging me to a nice orgasm.  Then I guided him on top of me.  He entered me swiftly, with one, fluid motion.  Pounding me harder and harder, getting close to orgasm quickly.  I arched my back, getting my clitoris right against his pubic bone and in seconds I was clenching on his cock and literally milked the cum right out of him! 

He stayed inside me until he was limp, gave me a tender kiss, said, “thanks for the quickie honey, it was great” - and went to clean up.  Now THAT is the way to send my hubby off on a business trip!  With fond memories of a hot pussy and a quick fuck!

You might not always have time for a full night of foreplay and sex, but everyone has time for a Quickie stop at Semen Station….

 

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Multi-Orgasmic or Serially Orgasmic….THAT is the question…

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , , , , on April 15, 2008 by mikayla1

So my girlfriend and I got together again yesterday and she had FANTASTIC news for me.  For the first time in her 37 years of life (and 17 years of having sex) she had MORE than one orgasm during masturbation!  YEAH ADDISON…YOU GO GIRL!!!!

As I mentioned in yesterday’s post, she had told me that there was NO way she was ever gonna cum more than once, and I told her she definitely could do it.  THen I gave her some great pointers as to how to achieve that.  So, she went right to her hotel, whipped out her favorite dildo and her mini bullet and went to work.  She reported to me that she had the one orgasm, and wanted to stop.  Her clit was burning and she didn’t want any more stimulation, but she wanted more orgasms…..she put the vibe back on her hot little clit on and off, on and off, on and off…then in a few minutes it started to feel GOOD again.  She said she kept with it and then she felt the orgasm building, building, BUILDING and then BAM….she had another.  Then she had to quit because, in her words, “I felt like my clit would fall off it I continued!”

SIDE NOTE:  To ADDISON and ALL other women - YOUR CLIT WOULD NEVER FALL OFF - I GUARANTEE IT!

My BFF was so happy, “Mik, I am multi-orgasmic!  I am so happy!” 

Then, I had to burst her bubble, “honey, you are not multi-orgasmic, you are ’sequentially orgasmic.’”  Then I heard the sound, “ppppbbbbpppppppppppprrrrrppppppppp” (SOUND OF HER BUBBLE DEFLATING!)

Listen, this is not a bad thing, it is a GOOD thing.  You have to start somewhere and this is the only way to do it (as far as I know!)  Sequential orgasms ARE a form of multi-orgasms, but they are not what most people think of when they think mult-orgasms. 

So, she asks, “OK oh sex guru, if that was not multi-orgasmic, then what IS????”

Well, the next step is to become SERIALLY ORGASMIC.  That means you have them over and over and over one after another….BAM…..BAM…BAM….unti you can not handle it anymore.  That is the traditional meaning of MULTI-orgasmic.

One of my good friends says that she is “MULTI-SERIALY-ORGASMIC“ - and I suppose that it true of many women who can have more than one O at a time.  Some times they come back to back, other times they are further interspersed. 

“So Mik, which are you….the orgasm cereal or do you have all your ducks in a row.” *Addison* asks with more than a bit of skepticism in her voice.

“I am MULTI-SERIALLY orgasmic,” I say to her.  That means, I have them one after another after another until I choose to come down for a break.  I already know your next question, how do you get THERE when you have just had more than one orgasm for the first time ever?

If you have had the sequential Os, then you have to move on to the serial Os.  The only way to do this is to train your body to continue to orgasm - this means, keep with the stimulation until you have mutiple orgasms.  This is not easy, it take dedication and patience and can be done with or without your partner - if HE (or SHE) is so inclined to help you reach your orgasmic goal.  You have to SUCK IT UP, work past the discomfort and continue stimulation at all costs.  This is the easiest route - although it will likely not be quick.  It will take much practice (what better to practice than ORGASMING!)

You may want to find a nice toy combo that you like - ‘real’ penis and bullet, thick dildo and bullet, vibrator and bullet, fingers and real ‘man’ (although your fingers WILL get tired), dual action (THAT IS MY CHOICE) - you get the drift.  Try to find what makes you the hottest and gives you the most amount of pleasure so you can stick with it.

So I left my BFF some hope of attaining her goal.  She leaves to go home to her new lover, and I am most sure that the sex they are gonna have is gonna be HOT, LONG and very fullfilling!  So whether you are sequentially orgasmic, serially orgasmic or multi-serially orgasmic - you can upgrade your orgasm package with just a little persistance!

COME ON LADIES, LET’S ALL HAVE AN ASSLOAD OF ORGASMS TONIGHT - I KNOW I AM GONNA!

 

 

 

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