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A Good Pussy Poundin’

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , on June 7, 2008 by mikayla1

So, my hubby has been gone for the entire week.  He was SUPPOSED to come home on Thursday, but got detained and ended up returning on Friday instead.  Well, I am not sure about you all, but when my man is away, I HAVE to have sex when he comes home.  A week without any nookie is JUST NOT HAPPENING in my home or bed.

So, hubby comes home yesterday and I greet him with a nice hug and ’suggestive’ kiss.  You know what I mean, that kiss that says, ‘this is a preview to later, bring your A game baby….’  He knew what that meant as he grabbed my ass and kissed me long and hard.  Now THAT is a way to welcome home your man.  We flirted unmercilessly when we could, I grabbed his cock, he grabbed my breasts.  It was obvious that we were both gonna get some lovin’ that evening.

Fastforward to later - kids are in bed, and we are ready.  Quick trip to the bathroom to ‘primp’ which for me consisted of:  washing up for freshness (I had already shaved my pussy in anticipation), putting on some ’slut dust’ (i.e. lotion with glitter), fixing my hair, putting on my new, black and purple corset, black panties (not up to thongs again yet) and bright RED lipstick (for his dipstick).  I was ready to go.

My husband trades places with me (I go to the bedroom, he went to the bathroom) I lit the candles, put on our ’sex blanket’ (i.e. soft, fluffy blanket that is very absorbent for those squirting nights) and perch myself on the bed in as seductive of a manner as I can muster up.  Hubby washed his pecker and came in to bed.

He announced to me, “Baby, you are gonna get one hell of a pussy poundin’ tonight!” and I swear I almost orgasmed right there. 

Sometimes when we have been away from each other it is time for the quick, fast, dirty fuck.  I am not sure why, but that is how it seems to go. He jumped on the bed and dove right for my tits.  Grabbing and growling (yes, really) and licking the tops.  The corset is fairly loose, so they popped out the top easily for him to bite my nipples.  It didn’t take long and he was pushing me over, yanking off my panties and slapping my ass but hard.  As always, my ass went into the air and kind of ‘met’ his hand as he spanked me.   Mmmmmm, a good spanking! 

He roughly spread my legs to give my pussy a good slap and I was so wet you could hear it!  Ass spank, pussy slap, ass spank, pussy slap….I was in heaven!  As if knowing how close I was, he slid beneath me, thrust in a few fingers and made me cum!  Then he kept going and made me cum again and again……I decided to get out of that and turned around to deepthroat his cock (which was sticking out of the top of his boxers!)  Licking, sucking, enjoying each other, I ended up on my back with him thrusting his cock down my throat, stopping to slap my face with it, every once and a while.

When we were about ready to explode, on to my hands and knees I went as he buried himself deep, deep into my pussy in one, fluid motion.   Ohhhh, GAAAAWWWDDDD did that feel good!  I can not go this long without sex.  Pounding, pounding, pounding…I was in heavenly bliss, firmly into subspace just enjoying being tossed and turned like a sex puppet.

We did doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, back to doggy and finally we finished with me spread as wide as I could, missionary, bullet on my clit and a vibrating butt plug buried in my ass.  I can not count the amount of orgasms I had, but it was fan-fucking-tastic - and almost worth the wait!

 

Birthday Banging…

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , on May 23, 2008 by mikayla1

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TO ME!

Yep, today is my 37th birthday!  I don’t feel a day over 36, so it is a good day!  Last night my hubby gave me TWO wonderful presents:

(1) Season One of “The Tudors” - I am totally addicted to that show! The king is HOT!  I would serve in his court any day!  I also love all the corsets and period clothing - it is just to die for.  I would love to be an extra on that show.

(2) A Fantastic BIRTHDAY BANGING! 

Yes, we could have waited until tonight, but we were in the mood yesterday (and plus, my period is due to start - I know, TMI).  So, we decided that last night would be ‘Birthday Sex Night.”  You may be asking yourself, what makes ‘birthday sex’ any different than regular sex?  Well, in my utopic bedroom, birthday sex means the birthday girl (or boy) gets to run the show and can have whatever she or he desires!

What does that mean when it was MY choice?  I opted to start the evening completely nekkid (this means naked with an evil or seductive overtone).  Then, some nice, long kissing.  I am not always a ‘kisser’ but some nights it just seems like the way to go.  As we were kissing, our bodies getting hot and sticky, we began to feel each other slowly, seductively.  I love long foreplay, so that is what I wanted.  I instructed my hubby that I wanted slow sex, followed by dirty sex.  Warm up and then FIRE!

So, we are slowly touching and teasing - and I am getting wetter and wetter.  Then he gets on top of me, puts my hands behind my head and begins to nuzzle my breasts and bite my nipples.  Mmmmmm, gotta love that.  Pulling them between his teeth and licking in between.  Still holding my hands, he begins to go lower.  I am anxious for him to get to my pussy, but he is taking his time.  Ugggh, I love / hate this.  He gently rolls me over and rubs my back and ass.  Love, love, love.  Then the “SMACK” of his hand on my ass.  (Every girl needs a birthday spanking!) and I am in heaven.  He whispers for me to get up on my hands and knees.  I do, he spreads my knees apart a bit.  Then I feel the paddle.  Mmmmmmmm.  Not too hard, but nice and firm.  Dripping wet now, he takes his cue from my body language and starts to rub my pussy with the palm of his hand.  Oh yeah, loving that.  Then he sticks a finger in….oh loving that more…..I am bucking back against him and really want to cum.

Just like that he stops…then goes for the gusto, gets beneath me and starts to lick and lap at me.  Now, I am not a big fan of being on top in a 69 (I don’t mind, but I prefer the bottom) I also prefer to be turned around so I can suck on him, but he was pampering me.  Love the pampering.  After a few orgasms, I jumped off him and took his cock in my mouth.  It was MY birthday bang, and that is what I wanted. 

When I do this (get forceful with sucking him off) he gets really horny quick.  I only got to suck on him for a little while, cause he was getting hot and so was I.  When I knew he was getting close I pushed him back on the bed and mounted him slowly.  Going down slowly and relishing that feeling of getting filled up.  Love it!  Hips grinding, parts mashing, wetness running…it was heaven.

The finale came when he pushed me off him, told me to bend over the bed and he pounded me from behind while pulling my hair and driving insanely into me until the big explosion!  It was phenomenal!

Now that is a way to say hello to a new year - wouldn’t you agree??????

The ORGASM Tree….

Posted in Ponderings.... with tags , , , , , , , on April 14, 2008 by mikayla1

Happy MONDAY blogging world!  Here where I am it is a beautiful day - sun is shining, birds are singing and I am in a chipper mood!  So, last night I went out for an early dinner with a very, very good girlfriend of mine.  She lives out of state now and was passing through for a few days.  We went to this nice little Bistro that I love that has kick ass Cosmopolitans and Martinis (boy I love the Martinis).  So anyway, we were chatting about life, love, men, sex, relationships, children, careers - trying to catch up on more than a year without talking in person.  She mentioned that she had a new ‘lover’ and was very happy with him.  *Addison* told me that *Mike* was very, very good in bed - extraordinary actually, but that she could only orgasm once per session. 

I say to her, “Ad, you are nuts, I can orgasm as many times as I want during a session - 10, 20, 30 or more even!”  She says, “Now you are just rubbing it in Mikayla, you know some people just can’t orgasm like that, what do you think that ORGASMS GROW ON TREES?”

Do Orgasms grow on trees?  That was funny, I laughed, took a sip of my Martini and responded, “YES, THERE IS AN ORGASM TREE, want me to plant it for you?”

*Addison* laughed, took a drink of HER martini and said, “no really Mik, it is just not possible.  I have always been a one-shot woman.  I wait and wait and build up and build up, then have it and I am done.”

“Oh girl, do I have a lot to teach you,” I say to her with my trademark evil grin.  Then I proceeded to tell my BFF what she is doing wrong in bed (I am a sex educator after all) and how she can have as many orgasms as she wants - yes, that is right - AS MANY AS SHE WANTS.  Now, I am not saying that this is easy to do, that it happens overnight or that all women have the determination to make this possible.  However, I am saying that it is POSSIBLE and CAN BE DONE.  You can have more than one orgasm a session ladies, you absolutely can!

I ask *Addison* why she makes herself build-up so much, why not just orgasm and then try for more.  She responded, “if I let it build it is such a fantastic orgasm that I can barely contain it, then when I am done, it is sensitive and I just want to move on to sex (if we are having oral) or be banged until he is done.”

So OK, this is a very common situation.  More women than I can even count have come to me with the same dilemma, “I orgasm, then I am sore, then I am done!”  It is true, when a woman orgasms her clitoris becomes very, very tender and somewhat sensitive.  For some women this is a temporary feeling, for others it can last for minutes to even a half hour.  The point is, NO PAIN, NO GAIN!  That is right - SUCK IT UP!   If you want to become multi-orgasmic or serially orgasmic (they are different) - then you have to work past the pain.

Look, when I am on the eliptical in the morning and I get to around 30 minutes, my legs are screaming, my muscles are revolting, I am sweating and all I want to do is QUIT!  Do I?  NO!  I know if I keep going for even 10 more minutes that I will burn 50 more calories or go 1/2 more miles.  I WORK THROUGH THE PAIN!  Same principal with an orgasm.

When I was dating *Bondage Guy* he had this habit of strapping me down so where I could not move at all, then he would use toys, fingers, tongue on me to make me orgasm over and over and over.  YES, it was uncomfortable, YES, it even hurt a bit, but what was the end result:  my ability to orgasm over and over and over - and they get MORE INTENSE each time.  While this ‘trial by fire’ was not under my control, I did use this knowledge to go past my limits when I was playing solo.  No longer would I just have ONE orgasm, I would push myself ot have many.  No longer did I play for 5 minutes, happy just to have came - I used toys and fingers and fantasies to enhance my pleasure, to give myself more than one orgasm.

Now, even though I am multi-orgasmic, I do like to delay that first one.  Especially if we are having great oral sex.  I love to wait and wait until I can’t stand it anymore - then I let it go - and build-back up immediately.  It is outstanding, and all my lovers have always enjoyed my multi-orgasmic abilities.

So, yes, there is AN ORGASM TREE - and it is planted when you decide to go for more orgasms, to work past your pain or discomfort, to go for the gusto.  I promise, it is worth the time and the pain to become more than a ‘one shot woman’ as *Addison* calls herself.  Any woman can do this - ANY WOMAN - and while you may not have 30 orgasms or more, you can definitely have more than one! 

So ladies, get to it.  Find your favorite vibrator, bullet or man and train yourself to have more than one orgasm.  From this tiny seed of knowledge can bloom a wonderfully satisfying sex life FULL OF ORGASMS!!